It's all part of the charm of your site.
As for clubbing in Boston, yeah, Tequila Rain sucks from my experience. The fiancee made a good point to me, though, Boston works well for the student and recently post-student crowd. Not that great for the more adult crowd.
And on another note: remember how you mentioned once the difficulty of moving somewhere new because of finding a job through networking? Well, I met someone who works as a Sales Engineer for Red Hat. Maybe the whole disapora away from Boston can work for you, if you ever find yourself in a bum job market or just plain looking to get away from Boston.