So I finally got around to adding a comment feature to the sidebar..now it doesn't have to piggyback on the day's comments, and they'll stay linked in the archive.
Oh,I guess I should respond to the actual topic...
If you're worried about being selfish with your time...I dunno, I think it's fair for people to need time to unwind and destress, even if it doesn't seem otherwise productive. I know that's definately an issue in my life.
But it reminds me that I wish I could retire now.